Can Muslims Wish Merry Christmas?

By V.A. Mohamad Ashrof, New Age Islam 25 December 2024 The festive season of Christmas stirs joy and celebration in hearts worldwide. Yet, for Muslims, the perennial question emerges like a thorn in the side: Is it permissible to wish "Merry Christmas?" This seemingly simple gesture has been dissected, debated, and discussed, revealing layers of theological and social complexities. As we navigate this nuanced terrain, let us unpack the issue using the lens of Islamic values, shared human connections, and the wisdom of the Prophet Muhammad. Quranic Verses ------ Understanding the Foundations: A Matter of Faith and Respect Christmas, widely celebrated as a cultural holiday akin to New Year’s Eve, often embodies values like compassion, charity, and familial bonds. While Muslims do not celebrate Christmas as a religious observance—primarily because it is rooted in the belief of Jesus' divinity, which conflicts with Islamic monotheism—Islam accords Prophet Isa (Jesus) an exalted status as a revered messenger of God (Q. 2:136). He is a thread in the rich tapestry of prophetic traditions that Islam celebrates. As the saying goes, "When in Rome, do as the Romans do," but within limits set by one’s faith. Muslims can engage in the festive cheer by focusing on shared values. Compassion and charity during this season are like twin beacons, illuminating the common ground between Islam and Christianity. These principles resonate deeply with the Islamic ethos of voluntary charity and community bonding. Following the Prophet's Path: Lessons from the Sirah The life of Prophet Muhammad is replete with examples of inclusivity and social harmony. The Charter of Madinah, for instance, stands as a shining beacon of unity, weaving diverse communities into the fabric of a cohesive society. This historic document highlights the Prophet’s commitment to building bridges across faiths. His life teaches us that gestures of kindness—like planting seeds of understanding—can bloom into enduring relationships. The Quranic verse (49:13) reminds us of the divine wisdom in diversity: “O mankind, We have created you from male and female and made you peoples and tribes that you may know one another.” It is a clarion call to appreciate differences while cherishing shared humanity. Like rivers flowing into the ocean, diverse cultures can converge, enriching the world’s collective heritage. Merry Christmas/ Photo from Files ------- Acts of Kindness: Small Gestures, Big Impact Simple gestures during the festive season—sharing halal snacks, participating in local charitable efforts, or exchanging thoughtful, modest gifts—are not just acts of goodwill but ripples in the pond of community harmony. Islam encourages gift-giving to foster bonds. As the Prophet said, “Exchange gifts, as that will lead to increasing your love for one another.” (Bukhari, Volume 3, Book 47, Number 778) However, discernment is key. Just as one does not mix oil with water, Muslims must ensure that these gestures do not compromise their faith. For instance, while sharing halal meals is commendable, decorating spaces with religious symbols contrary to Islamic beliefs should be avoided. Wishing “Merry Christmas”: A Balancing Act The act of wishing "Merry Christmas" can be likened to a bridge—a span connecting hearts and fostering goodwill—rather than an endorsement of theological differences. Islam emphasizes intention (niyyah), and the key is to approach such greetings as gestures of respect and harmony. For those who feel uncomfortable, alternatives like "Happy Holidays" or "Season’s Greetings" can strike a similar chord without raising theological concerns. As the old adage goes, "Where there’s a will, there’s a way." Finding inclusive phrases allows Muslims to extend warmth without compromising their beliefs. Avoiding Pitfalls: Upholding Respect for Other Faiths While engaging with the festive season, Muslims must tread carefully to avoid inadvertently endorsing practices contrary to Islamic principles. For instance, singing Christmas carols that attribute divinity to Jesus crosses the line. Like a tightrope walker, one must balance between respect for others’ beliefs and adherence to one’s own. Furthermore, criticism or mockery of others’ faiths is a slippery slope that not only tarnishes the spirit of mutual respect but also fuels animosity. The Quran explicitly warns against such behaviour (Q. 6:108), underscoring the importance of maintaining decorum and dignity in interfaith interactions. "You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar," and the sweetness of respect can build bridges where bitterness destroys them. Common Ground: Shared Values between Islam and Christianity At their core, Islam and Christianity share profound commonalities. Both religions emphasize values like charity, familial bonds, and humility. These values are like two sides of the same coin, reflecting the shared commitment to nurturing humanity. For example, the Quran (Q.3:50) highlights how Prophet Isa reaffirmed the Torah's teachings while introducing compassion into religious law. Similarly, his life story—marked by humility and a commitment to justice—offers timeless lessons for Muslims and Christians alike. Lessons from History: The Prophet’s Interactions with Christians History offers a treasure trove of lessons in coexistence. The Prophet Muhammad’s positive relations with Christians, such as King Negus of Abyssinia, exemplify diplomacy and mutual respect. These interactions are like pearls strung together, showcasing a legacy of harmony across faiths. The Prophet’s companions who sought refuge in Abyssinia under a just Christian king illustrate how Muslims can coexist peacefully in non-Muslim societies while upholding their faith. These historical accounts are mirrors reflecting the potential for harmony in diversity, even in today’s interconnected world. Building Bridges, Not Walls In a world increasingly divided by ideological fault lines, acts of goodwill—like wishing "Merry Christmas"—can be lifelines tethering us to the essence of our shared humanity. As long as these gestures do not breach Islamic principles, they are not only permissible but encouraged to promote harmony. Prophet Isa’s life is a testament to the universality of values like love, justice, and humility. Like a lighthouse guiding ships through treacherous waters, his story beckons Muslims to find common ground with others. Similarly, the Prophet Muhammad’s interactions with people of other faiths remind us that "a soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." Ultimately, wishing "Merry Christmas" or engaging with the festive season is less about theology and more about fostering relationships. It is a reflection of Islam’s commitment to justice, kindness, and mutual respect—a reminder that, despite our differences, we are all bound by the same human journey. Let us be the threads that weave unity into the fabric of our diverse societies. ---- V.A. Mohamad Ashrof is an independent Indian scholar specializing in Islamic humanism. With a deep commitment to advancing Quranic hermeneutics that prioritize human well-being, peace, and progress, his work aims to foster a just society, encourage critical thinking, and promote inclusive discourse and peaceful coexistence. 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